Wednesday, February 24, 2010

The Paradox of Our Age

This post won't have any pictures, because I suck and can't find the cord to my camera (and because I'm at work. shhhhh!).

Our lives since Christmas have included a little bit of change and a LOT of busyness (is that a word?). Unfortunatley that means, I'm horrible at keeping this up to date! So I'm going to try harder! Promise!

Marc is back in school. From what I can tell this semester is a lot harder than last semester, but he is taking it like a champ. He studies ALL the time, and has done really well! He has also become midly obssessed with fly fishing and has even tried it in the bayou (read:creek) across the street from us.

I am almost through with my teaching certification (two more weeks!) and I just got a substitute teaching job. I am so excited about it, and I hope it leads to some more opportunities. I really hope to work at a school called YES Prep next year. It is a charter school and  it would be the perfect mix for my social work/education background so keep that in your prayers! I would be overjoyed if I could work there... here is a link in case your interested in knowing more about it: http://www.yesprep.org/

First I have to represent my family and say GEAUX SAINTS! Mom, dad and Luke came down to watch the game with us here (since we couldn't go to Abilene) and we had so much fun finally watching the Saints win. It is definitely a big deal to my family and I am so happy we all got to experience it together!

On Valentine's Day I "surprised" Marc with a trip to Gruene, TX to go fly fishing. It wasn't a real surprise because I told him before Valentine's Day weekend, but I planned it all without him knowing. We stayed at the cutest little bed and breakfast. (I lied about no pictures, I found some on the internet so here they are)

I will add more later, but one is of our room (it was pretty big, you can't tell from the picture. And soooo cute!) and the other was our patio outside our room. It was perfect to sit and watch Chloe play in the yard (yep! she was allowed to come too!). The whole place was perfect. The owner made breakfast in the main house everymorning and it was delicious. I never want to stay in a hotel again.

Saturday during the day we drove to the Guadalupe and tried out fly-fishing. I am horrible and evidently there were NO fish because we didn't catch a single one, but it was so much fun! I think it will be our Valentine's tradition.

Gruene, TX has to be the cutest little town in Texas and Saturday night we ate dinner at the Gristmill... which is the restaurant in the old cotton gin. And Marc being the sweet sweet husband he is gave me this beautiful necklace from James Avery for Valentine's Day....
I had no idea he was going to do something so special! (I thought the trip was for me too since I got to pick the B&B and go shopping!). The necklace is beautiful, he did SO good!

We wanted to go dancing at Gruene Hall (the oldest dance hall in Texas!), but there was a concert that night and a line going all the way down the street. It was cold outside so we decided to head back to the B&B and watch the Olympics (Go USA!).

On Sunday we did our shopping in Gruene and found some cool antiques stores...it was a beautiful day and it ended our trip perfectly! I didn't buy anything because somehow people label random things as antiques so they can charge more, and I would rather have something new than old. However, we found a ton of cool random things to put in Marc's office someday (like old optometry stuff). So we will probably be back to look for that when the time comes.

Other than that, our lives our busy but boring. I work 40 hours a week and usually have class for 10-15 hours a week too. And Marc is going to school like 25 hours a week and studying for what seems like an eternity. We are busy bees, but we like it that way! I  have started making jewelry to keep me busy while Marc is studying and I love it! Its relaxing and I get some great jewelry out of it. I will post some pictures soon so everyone can see!

This is long but I want to leave you guys with this... They played it at the beginning of our teacher class last week and I loved it, so hopefully you can get something out of it too!


Paradox of Our Age

The paradox of our time in history is that we have
taller buildings but shorter tempers;
w i d e r  freeways, but narrower viewpoints.

We spend more, but have less;
we buy more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families;
more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees but less sense;
more knowledge, but less judgment;
more experts, yet more problems;
more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much,
 smoke too much,
spend too recklessly,
laugh too little,
drive too fast,
get too angry,
stay up too late,
 get up too tired,
read too little,
watch TV too much,
and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.


We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We've added years to life not life to years.
 We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space.
We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion;
big men and small character;
steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce;
fancier houses but broken homes.

 These are days of
 quick trips,
 disposable diapers,
 throwaway morality,
one night stands,
overweight bodies,
and pills that do everything from cheer,
to quiet,
to kill.

It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.
A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete.


Remember, spend some time with your loved ones,
because they are not going to be around forever.


Remember to say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe,
because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.



Remember to give a warm hug to the one next to you,
because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.



Remember to say "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it.
 A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.



Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment
for someday that person will not be there again.



Give time to love, give time to speak,
and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.



 

Monday, January 18, 2010

The post that is WAY too late.

First, I am so sorry it has been so long since I did this.... we have been so busy. Please forgive me!

Literally a million things have happened since I wrote last so basically know that December was so busy with Marc's tests and finals and getting Christmas ready both for us and for the kids at my work. We had a Christmas program (in which my kids did WONDERFUL!) and then my co workers and I worked at our "Christmas warehouse" to help get presents ready for all the families. I had so much fun, but I am so glad its over! We went to Abilene (in the middle of the ice storm!) for Christmas and stayed a whole week! It was so relaxing and wonderful. We loved spending so much time with friends and family. Here is a brief recap of our Christmas break because I am horrible at taking pictures!



So there is the summary of our break. In other news, I'm becoming a teacher!!!!! I'm getting my alternative certification in 4th-8th grade and will be able to teach in about a month! It has been so quick and relatively pain free. I'm really excited about it, there are many reasons that I want to be a teacher for now but mainly because I eventually want to be a school counselor and that requires two years of teaching.  I still have a passion for social work, but mainly that passion comes from an urge to help children. Since moving to Houston I realize that the key to success for many children in the inner city is education. Many of the children in my class have been left behind in school and are slowly falling through the cracks. It bothers me that I can't help educate them, at this point if I can keep them entertained and without injury I have had a good day. There are just too many that are too far behind. I want to make a difference to them. I know every teacher has the dream of changing the lives of a few students, and I am no different.

My favorite quote ever is  "Be the change you want to see in the world". I complained alot about the school system in Houston after seeing second and third graders who couldn't read. I complained alot about teachers who sent home homework but never looked to see if it was completed. I complained alot about teachers who were not passionate about their work and sat behind their desk all day. So, I decided I was being a complete hypocrit. I wanted a change, but wasn't doing anything about it. So now I am.  I know I can't change the school system single-handedly, but I can be different. I can care. I can WANT to work at those schools that no one wants to work at. I can look beyond the reputation of a student and see the story that lies within.

I have so many stories of children who at the age of 6 or 7 have known nothing but failure. They have no model for success and have rarely heard a word of praise. They lack the confidence to even try to find the right answer. I can ask a question and even when they know the answer, they look at me longingly... not even willing to try. They want a hint, or even better, the answer. They never raise their hand, never look me in the eye and usually won't even tell me they have homework. Its sad... and I am hoping to make an impact for at least one of these children.

My field director at my last internship called me a "bleeding heart". Meaning, I am overly compassionate. And he is completely right. I want to change the world and have spent endless days/night trying to find a way to make it possible. Some people think its crazy. To those people I say: "If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito." (the Dalai Lama).

On that note, I am devestated by the happenings in Haiti. If I had the money, I would be there helping in a heart beat. I cannot even fathom the devestation that has occured there. Since I cannot go, I will encourage anyone who can to donate to www.unicefusa.org. UNICEF is one of my favorite organizations, they help children all over the world have healthcare, clean water, education, nutrition and emergency relief. Please, if you are at all able donate to the children and families of Haiti. Many have been left orphaned and injured and they need all the help they can. If you can not donate monetarily please keep them in your prayers. The country itself is on the verge of anarchy and many more lives will be lost. Also, if you are looking for a charity to regularly contribute... UNICEF is a very worthy cause. Please consider them.

Okay, so on a MUCH happier note. We got to see our good friend Heather and her mom and new baby Paige!! I was so excited they came to town! We visited with them over some coffee at the Galleria and I got to hold the precious little girl! Here is my new favorite picture (and the best way to end this blog because she is just to freaking cute)!!



(I told you she was cute!)